By
Charlene Doak-Gebauer
I believe
that the terms "ADD" and "ADHD" are difficult for parents
to understand. These terms are very negative. I taught at the high school level for 20 years
in special education environments. The
students in these classrooms are always challenging and extremely interesting
to teach.
Many
parents are told that their children are ADD or ADHD. Because the word “disorder” is involved, it
is devastating for parents to hear.
Along with the identification of their child being ADD or ADHD, it is
often recommended that parents resort to medications in order to “calm” down
their child.
I have had
many clients with children who are ADD or ADHD. They have to overcome the fear of their
child having learning difficulties because of the condition; and also their
guilt because the education system has made them believe that their child is a
“burden” in the classroom.
I prefer
to refer to the conditions as ADD - "Awesome Day Dreamer" and ADHD - "Awesome
Day Dreamer/Hyperactive Day Dreamer". They are much more positive.
Through a consultation with me, the parents become educated regarding the
foods that their child is eating that can cause them to be “awesome”. Or, the child could have food allergies that
have gone undetected. Food is the most
benign method of dealing with
“awesome” children. Medication should be
the last choice.
Emotional
challenges can be caused by foods that children and adults consume that they
are allergic or sensitive to. Many people think that sensitivity or allergic
reactions are rash, vomiting, headache and the like. For many adults and children, these
sensitivities can come out in emotional challenges. For example, children who are my clients can
be hitting their siblings, banging their heads, rocking repeatedly, not
concentrating in school, delayed in school because of concentration
difficulties and the like. After
identifying food related issues, parents who ensure that their children consume
the suggested foods in a comprehensive, individualized nutritional plan, see
amazing results. Emotional challenges
can be the greatest sign of food issues.
One family in particular, saw all negative behaviours disappear. As soon as their son had one cheat meal full
of allergens, his negative behaviours appeared again. It is true, what you eat will affect your
life.
Pharmaceutical
medications should be avoided as much as possible. If many of these children started taking
medications, the real issue would not surface and the “band aid” would only
mask the real problem. I have seen this
theory validated many times.
It is
always an “awesome” experience to help families and children. When parents call to tell me that their child
is finally at their age level in learning or that their child has finally
passed a math test and their teacher is happy with the change, it makes my work
so worthwhile.